I have solicited advice from a few trusted techs, and I hear I need to install several web server and a single nginx server, forward all 80/443 traffic to nginx, and have it do layer 7 routing/load balancing to distribute incoming traffic to the web heads. Also in cases of small static sites, which I have a few, they say nginx makes a fine web server, so I'm pretty much sold. I don't have any questions yet, just saying hey. Hey!

Ok, that was amazingly easy. I set up a web site, and I set up a proxy to another box. We're living in the future!!