Well i dont get it all at once i just have to wait like 44 seconds before the first byte or bit of the download so i can play the media while the rest of it downloads.

It is such a unique issue. I never noticed it until now because when i watch the same length videos on youtube and places they stream it via rtmp with dash i recon. But when you delieve just a standard mp4 file for html5 streaming you encounter this problem.

I read that even cpu or ram could contribute to this but i find that unlikely.