Hello everyone,

I have a problem with our server.
Not all people can connect and some times the site loads very slow ( no ddos attack ).

Nginx status says 1 active connection but my friend cant connect (site keeps loading and then it shows connection times out error).
From 10 trys he can connect only like once.

Server: 4 cores and 8gb ram with 1000mb connection.

nginx conf:
user www www;

worker_processes 4;

error_log /home/wwwlogs/nginx_error.log warn;

pid /usr/local/nginx/logs/nginx.pid;

#Specifies the value for maximum file descriptors that can be opened by this process.
worker_rlimit_nofile 8192;

events
{
use epoll;
worker_connections 4096;
multi_accept on;
}

http
{
include mime.types;
default_type application/octet-stream;

server_names_hash_bucket_size 128;
client_header_buffer_size 64k;
large_client_header_buffers 4 64k;
client_max_body_size 10m;
client_body_buffer_size 256m;

sendfile on;
tcp_nopush on;

keepalive_timeout 60;

tcp_nodelay on;

fastcgi_connect_timeout 300;
fastcgi_send_timeout 300;
fastcgi_read_timeout 300;
fastcgi_buffer_size 256k;
fastcgi_buffers 8 256k;
fastcgi_busy_buffers_size 512k;
fastcgi_temp_file_write_size 1024k;

gzip on;
gzip_min_length 2k;
gzip_buffers 4 32k;
gzip_http_version 1.0;
gzip_comp_level 2;
gzip_types text/plain application/x-javascript text/css application/xml;
gzip_vary on;
gzip_proxied expired no-cache no-store private auth;
gzip_disable "MSIE [1-6]\.";

#limit_zone crawler $binary_remote_addr 10m;

server_tokens off;
#log format
log_format access '$remote_addr - $remote_user [$time_local] "$request" '
'$status $body_bytes_sent "$http_referer" '
'"$http_user_agent" $http_x_forwarded_for';

server
{
listen 127.0.0.1:8080;
server_name www.lnmp.org;
index index.html index.htm index.php;
root /home/wwwroot/default;


location ~ .*\.(php|php5)?$
{
try_files $uri =404;
fastcgi_pass unix:/tmp/php-cgi.sock;
fastcgi_index index.php;
include fcgi.conf;
}

location /statusdsd {
stub_status on;
access_log off;
}

location ~ .*\.(gif|jpg|jpeg|png|bmp|swf)$
{
expires 30d;
}

location ~ .*\.(js|css)?$
{
expires 24h;
}

#access_log /home/wwwlogs/access.log access;
}
include vhost/*.conf;
}


and php-fpm
[www]
listen = /tmp/php-cgi.sock
user = www
group = www
pm = static
pm.max_children = 8
pm.start_servers = 2
pm.min_spare_servers = 2
pm.max_spare_servers = 6
request_terminate_timeout = 100
pm.max_requests = 2500

hope someone can help me out